God’s Supernatural Provision

by Ashley on March 14, 2012

God's Supernatural ProvisionI am writing because these stories are too good to keep to myself. God’s faithfulness in providing financially for our family is better than I could have imagined.

In the past, I’d hear an incredible testimony of God’s provision and rejoice, for a moment. Then, in would creep doubt and unbelief. I’d sometimes think, “Those types of miracles could happen for someone else but probably not for me.”

I’m certainly not proud of my unbelief. I am now learning how unbelief is such a hinderance to God’s activity in my life. That may sound harsh. But do you realize what is on the flip side of that coin?

On the other side is when I am believing, my faith attracts God’s movement. So, I’m sharing these testimonies in hope that you’ll read what God did for us and know that He can do this for you too!

Debt Erased

Last year, we sold our house. I really should say God sold it because it sold on the first day. In fact, we had more thanGod's Supernatural Provision: Debt Erased one offer. We were first time home buyers. We had received the $8000 tax credit when we purchased our house. However, we sold it before the government’s 3 year time frame which meant we had to pay it back.

The thought of owing the government $8000 lingered in the back of my mind. When the “worry” would arise, I gave it to the Lord, trusting He’d somehow provide a way. We certainly didn’t have that kind of money in the bank.

This year, we hired a trusted accountant to do our taxes. We learned that we didn’t owe the $8000 after all because we didn’t make a penny on the sale of our house. In addition, the government owed us $2000! The accountant saw God’s favor and blessing and wouldn’t take any payment for his services saying, “I want in on the blessing too!”

Daily Provision

God's Supernatural Daily ProvisionOften, I’ve thought of God as being a “last-minute” God. He doesn’t seem to do things in my time frame. To me, His actions on my behalf sometimes seem “last-minute.” On the contrary, I’m learning that He’s not a “last-minute” God but my daily bread.

A few months ago, I returned from grocery shopping and sat in the car crying. With tears, I was releasing all my fears about our finances at His feet. I knew I couldn’t keep carrying them. But I couldn’t see the way. Money was running out.

The next day we got word that my husband’s unemployment benefits would be extended another year as he continued to look for work. Just when I thought we had reached the end of our rope, God showed up with more provision. We hadn’t run out of money yet. He wasn’t late or last-minute, he was right on time providing for our daily bread.

Food in Storehouses

We’ve enjoyed meeting fellow farmers and the camaraderie we share with them. Some new friends of ours offered us one of their God's Supernatural Provision: A cow and freezerbulls. Not to live in our field but to find a home in our freezer. We just needed to pay for the butchering.

For years, we dreamed of purchasing a cow for its meat but could never seem to make it work. Now, our friends were offering us one for free!

We didn’t have a freezer for extra food storage so my husband began looking on Craigslist. We didn’t find anything. A few days later, some other friends offered us a freezer they were no longer using. God not only provided the meat but the freezer to put it in too!

God’s provision is never boring! It is creative, often connecting people together in life-giving community.

If your family is struggling financially, have hope! His provision is coming. It is promised. Believing His great and precious promises will give you the strength for today. Faith fuels us and helps us move forward into all He has for us!

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Use Cookbooks with Your Menu Planning Templates

My Cookbooks

I hate getting caught without a plan. When we had twins, putting our numbers up to 7, my husband pointed out that we had hit the point where we could no longer get away with not having a plan. He was right.

I love all you spontaneous folks out there who can open a fridge and create a masterpiece. There are times when that is necessary although I seem to lack the gift. If I don’t plan my meals and snacks a week in advance and grocery shop accordingly, I find we’re subsisting on cold cereal and quesadillas. Instead of thinking of planning as limiting, view it as means of living intentionally.

We’ve recently begun the GAPS diet. A few of you have asked what is this diet all about? It’s a healing diet designed to help restore the digestive system and the colon, the center of the immune system. It deals with issues as extreme as autism all the way to asthma, eczema and chronic constipation/diarrhea. It involves eating no grains and no sugar (except honey and 100% maple syrup, grade B). That’s the hard part.

But the GAPS diet is introducing us to a whole new world that really compliments our new farm lifestyle. Everything is homemade including bone broths, fermented foods like yogurt, Keifer, creme fraiche and sauerkraut, and juicing. I love it! I’m baking with almond flour so we still get to indulge in carb-like foods now and again.

But enough about GAPS. However, this huge diet change is the current catalyst in my pursuit to be an excellent menu planner. There is no winging it anymore. No drive-thrus allowed, no Costco pizzas, no grilled cheese sandwiches in a pinch. So here’s some meal planning templates to add a touch of organization to your home!

Meal Planning Templates

(Click on the images for download links)

My Current Favorite: Weekly Meal Plan with Shopping List

Menu Planning Template

 

I love planning my meals and my shopping list side by side. I can cut off the shopping list and away we go to the store. In the notes section, I add ideas for next week’s menu planner, yummy things to be had. I’ve written a “Snack” category into the lunch box so I can plan a healthy afternoon snack. It seems we snack healthier when I plan well.

 

 

 

 

 

Kid’s Involvement Dinner Planner

Kid Involvement Meal Planner

Do you have an assigned dinner helper for each day of the week? The kids are often with me in the kitchen. Partly because they like food, partly because they can’t live long without me :-) and partly because they are budding chefs in training. I like this menu plan because it gives you a spot to assign a “sous chef!”

I’m a big believer in gradually working myself out of a job. I start young, planting the magic of the kitchen in my children. As my children get older, I plan on delegating a meal a week to their expertise (with nutritional guidance of course otherwise we’d be eating corn dogs).

I also like the section for adding the recipe book and page number for reference. I often forget where to find that recipe!

 

Monthly Meal Planner

Menu Planning Templates

 

 

For those who love to have the big picture in view, this is the meal planner for you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just a few menu planning templates to inspire you into meal planning and organization for your family!

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Spring is Around the Corner

by admin on February 15, 2012


So sweet! Meet Prediction and her baby Peanut

I’m enjoying farm life. It’s an amazing place to encounter life and unfortunately death as well. A great life-skills classroom for our boys. We are growing to love these animals.

Last week, we had a special delivery. Even though it hailed yesterday, we have evidence that Spring is around the corner. We have a new doe and baby buckling in the barn!

Jesse

Notice Peanut's green ears. He was tattooed and disbudded (horns removed) that morning

Caleb and Peanut

Samuel and Peanut

Everyone wanted a turn to hold Peanut!

Except Noah. He wasn't too sure about pint-size Peanut

Noah

Noah gradually got a bit more comfortable with the goats. He wanted to get down to their level.

We are blessed to be able to feed our goats organic alfalfa. What they eat, we drink!

loft

Samuel and Jesse in the hay loft

Hanging Out

Caleb hanging out. He looks at home up there!

Joseph

That smile is so full of life!

With an abundance of milk, I made yogurt for the first time with my new yogurt maker!

I’m discovering the fruitfulness of farm life. So grateful for good food. I’m becoming aware of all the hard work involved to put a nutritious glass of milk on the table. Not all food is created equal.

We are also praying for the fruit of manual labor in our boys’ lives. Raymond and Dorothy Moore said, “The remarkable thing about the work experience is what we call its synergic effect- by combining (a child’s) hand and his head, (we) accomplish far more in a given time than (we) would if (the child) had spent all his time on either his head or his hands alone.” Homeschooling on a farm provides a great balance of head, hands and heart!

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An Unexpected Way to Refresh

Today, I have the privilege of sharing at joyfulmothering.net! Join me there and let God meet you with His surprising promise of refreshment in the midst of the daily grind. I also share 3 ways to apply this promise in our homes.

Catch the promise and it just might transform your life! God’s promises have a way of doing that :-) !

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Ideas for Small Living Spaces: Be Purposeful

by Ashley on February 4, 2012

Ideas for Small Living Spaces: Might Not Be in Dream Home MagazineWe might not be living in our dream home. But just because it doesn’t exactly look like that magazine picture we’ve been saving doesn’t mean it can’t act like it. What makes a dream home isn’t its size or price tag but its beautiful functionality. One seems to effortlessly glide from room to room. But watch out not to trip over the toy trucks on the floor because “real life” exists even in a dream home :-) .

A dream home has a flow- a flow of color and style (the beauty part) and a flow of layout (the functional use of the space). We may not be able to knock down a wall or replace the slider with french doors but we do have a say over the placement of furniture & decor and the function of the rooms.

How to Make the Most of Your Home Space

Back to my farm analogy from my post Small House Big Love. One of the reasons small farms make more net income per acre than large farms is because small farms use each square foot of land more intensively. Smaller farms just have to make better use of their land because they don’t have excess to spare. They creatively rotate crops and animals through pasture. They purpose land and barn space for multiple uses.

Let’s apply these principles to our home and see if we can maximize our space!

  • Use Every Square Foot Effectively

Because space is limited, our small homes need to be used well. Each room and wall must have a purpose because there isn’t space to spare. A room or piece of furniture may need to serve multiple purposes to get the most out of the small square footage.

For Example:

-In our living room, I created a pseudo-entry by placing the back of our couch in the middle of the room, designating a walkway. Against the back of the couch, I’ve placed a bench and basket for shoes to serve as a mini-mudroom minus the mud! We take our farm boots off in the garage.

Ideas for Small Living Spaces: Create an Entry Way

I created a pseudo-entry way/mudroom with our bench & couch as a divider

-Recently, we moved all 6 of our boys into 1 room in our 3 bedroom home. Sound crazy? Unamerican? Well, my older boys were primarily using their room (it’s 10×10 ft) for sleeping because there wasn’t much extra floor space for playing. Also, the boys love to sleep at least 2 to a bed. Often we had 1-2 beds lie empty every night. So, we gave a bed away and squeezed everyone into our largest bedroom.

It works like a dream. The spare bedroom has become my office, a reading room with bookcases and beanbag, Lego showcase and clothes storage for the older boys. Kind of a hodge-podge but I feel the house is so much bigger now that we’ve redefined these 2 rooms.

  • Define Each Room’s Purpose

Spend time thinking about the purpose of each room, each piece of furniture, and each closet. Don’t forget the space under the bed for storage as well. Ask: Is this the most effective way to use the space or have I allowed other things to creep in and take over (like clutter)?

In our American society, we tend to think individually rather than collectively. It’s beneficial to have a collective perspective when evaluating our home. Can several family members utilize the same space?  Can it serve more than 1 purpose? To encourage the space to be used as intended gather the appropriate materials and store them nearby.

For Example:

-In our dining space, we eat meals, homeschool, and do arts and crafts. In a cupboard next to the dining table (in the kitchen), I store a bin of art supplies. The older boys keep their homeschool bins just off the dining room in 2 cupboards. A napkin holder and salt & pepper shakers serve as a centerpiece while the drawers in our dining table house placemats. Most things I use in this space are within reach. People with a larger home might have an arts & crafts room or homeschool room. Because we don’t have the space, I have purposed our dining room to be multi-functional.

-In 1 home we rented, our 3 boys at the time shared a room.  The little room only

Ideas for Small Living Spaces: 3-rung Closet

Our closet wasn't this over-the-top! But I wanted to give you an idea of how efficient 3 rungs can be.

contained 1 dresser and we needed extra clothes storage space. We hung 3 rungs in the closet to maximize the space. This way there was no wasted space below the clothes. I also wanted my younger boys to be able to hang their own clothes without much help. I purposed their closet for clothes storage only and made it accessible to their size.

  • Re-purpose Beloved Furniture

I wish I could say I knew how to refurbish old furniture. I’m lucky if I take time to add a coat of paint to something old and worn. We might love an antique but its original design may not serve us well in our home. That doesn’t mean we have to toss it. Instead, find a functional way to use it!

For Example:

-I was given my grandparents’ serving table. When we lived in a larger house, I used it

Ideas for Small Living Spaces: Re-purpose furniture

I re-purposed my grandparents' serving table and use it as a bedside table

for its original purpose- to hold serving dishes that didn’t fit on the dining table during a meal. We don’t have room for it in the dinning area of this house. We almost gave it away but I was too sentimentally attached! So, I replaced a smaller bedside table with the serving table to hold the books I’m reading. I love the space I gain. I plan on painting it a bright color to compliment the bedroom.

-My Grandmother’s buffet sits in our living room/pseudo entryway. She used it to hold her fine china. We have plenty of space for dishes in our tall kitchen cupboards. So, in our home, it holds winter hats, homeschool bins, table linens, Cds, phone books, car keys etc. It’s many drawers and cupboards provide wonderful hidden storage and we still get to enjoy the beauty of this antique!

Seek to have pieces in your home that you love but serve a function as well. I know. It’s hard to let go. We’ve stored an armoire we got at a thrift store in England 6 years ago in our garage ever since. We keep hoping in our “next” house there will be room for it. I think it’s time to bless someone else with this piece of furniture we love. It just doesn’t serve a practical function for our space.

As you make room in your home for furniture that serves a practical purpose but is pleasing to your eye, you’ll be one step closer to your functional yet beautiful dream home.

For more encouragement on letting go, read my post on giving fearlessly!

Instead of pinning away for what we don’t have, let’s seek to be content with what we do and enjoy it by making the MOST of your small living space!

 

 

 

 

 

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Guidelines for Music Education In & Out of the HomeThere are so many intellectual, emotional and spiritual benefits to music exposure! Your child’s brain benefits from music exposure and music education. Parents don’t have to spend tons of money or drive their kids all around town for music lessons to do so.

There are fun, inexpensive and effective ways to incorporate music and singing at home too! You may have older children who are already mastering instruments, providing music in the home and a model for younger children. Regardless of the scenario, each family can incorporate a love for music with a little intentionality.

Tips for At-Home Music Education

  • Play Classical Music During Everyday Activities

I appreciate the way music has the ability to influence the atmosphere of my home. I will turn on classical music during meal time to set the stage for a more relaxed dining experience. It has accompanied our laundry folding, arts and crafts, or even trips in the car. There are many ways to naturally integrate beautiful music throughout the day.

Try Prokofiev: Peter and the Wolf; Britten: Young Person’s Guide to the Orchestra; Saint-Saens: Carnival of the Animals CD for a lively way to share classical music with children.

  • Get to Know the Lives of Famous Composers

Our favorite way to do this is to read books by Opal Wheeler. In these books, you’ll encounter the composer’s childhood filled with adventures and upsets. In addition to a captivating story, snippets of waltzes, minuets, and sonatas are printed throughout.

If you can read music and play, these are a wonderful accompaniment. I don’t so we use the  Companion CD with the book so we can still benefit from the flavor of the composer’s music while reading the story. These are most appropriate for school-age children.

  • Keep Instruments Within Reach

Regardless of the age of the child, a variety of sound-makers and instruments should be at their disposal. From anGuidelines for Music Education In & Out of the Home: Make Instruments Available early age, babies love the power to make noise! From a rattle to a wooden spoon on a pot, babies and toddlers will find a way to create music. I keep a basket full of bells, drums, rhythm sticks and tambourines in our living room so my children can engage in music anytime.

Find a simple tutorial for easy to make music shakers to make with your kids!

  • Sing Songs Together

Sing your way through your day! Songs can help to transition from one activity in the home to another. Singing a song and adding your child’s name will be received by him/her as praise and recognition. Find more fun tips for giving babies-preschoolers early exposure to music.

Age-Appropriate Guidelines for Formal Music Education

Guidelines for Music Education In & Out of the Home: Formal Music EducationBeyond the home, there are age-appropriate recommendations to get the most from music exposure and music lessons outside the home. Don’t underestimate your own ability to successfully give your child a musical foundation from a young age. However, there will come a time when you will need to determine the readiness of your child for outside instruction.

  • From 6 months-3 years:

Group classes like Kindermusik provide opportunities for children to develop rhythm, pitch, concepts such as high and low or fast and slow, use their voices and internalize sounds. These classes can help the child internalize the precepts of music and prepare them for learning to play an instrument.

In these types of classes, children under the age of 3, have mom and the child participate together. They are exposed to a variety of music, fun physical activities and music theory through song and games. I participated in these classes with my oldest three when they were younger. We have lots of good memories.

  • From 3 years – 6 years:

Children’s brains and motor skills have now usually developed sufficiently to begin to consider learning to play instruments such as the violin, keyboard or piano during these years. The child’s ear is more fully developed and they are learning to master language and abstract concepts.Guidelines for Music Exposure In & Out of the Home: Formal Music Education

I’ve always been impressed with the Suzuki method- ”an educational philosophy which seeks to create “high ability” and beautiful character in its students through a nurturing environment emphasizing immersion, encouragement, small steps, and a timetable for learning material based on each person’s developmental readiness. “

*I think it is important to stress that not all children are ready to participate in a class structure at this age. But Suzuki classes make learning music fun and respects the developmental stage of the child. You know your child best and his readiness.

  • From 6 years onwards:

By now your child’s fine motor skills have begun to develop and they can master a wider range of instruments, such as a flute, percussion, guitar or trumpet. An important consideration is also to find an instrument that suits your child - for example, drums and percussion require a strong sense of rhythm, brass and wind instruments need well-developed fine motor skills, and a string instrument requires the ability to hear the note when they tune and play.

Whatever course you choose to take, make the journey more enjoyable by respecting developmental limitations, waiting for child readiness and keeping music alive in your home!

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Kids Valentines Day Gifts

by Ashley on January 20, 2012

Fill a cute Valentines Day mailbox

Valentines Day is just around the corner. When I stumbled upon these little mailboxes at Target, I came up with a creative way to shower each family member with love. I wanted to share it with you!

I found these adorable little mailboxes at Target for $1. That’s just the right price when you are celebrating Valentines Day with 6 kids! The Target dollar section is one of my favorite places in the store. I spend a lot of time there :-) .

The mailboxes come in blue, pink, white and red. I bought one for each of us in the family (8 in all). With a Sharpie, I wrote each of our names. For the record, mine is the only pink one! It’s one of the privileges of being the only girl in the family.

Here’s the Plan:

Kids Valentines Day GiftsFrom February 1-14, I will be tucking little love notes and treats inside to celebrate! But I won’t be the only mailman in the family. I am going to encourage each of my boys (Daddy too) to put a picture, candy or note inside for each other. Let the love flow!

I thought this might be a good way to help my boys extend themselves in thoughtfulness and encouragement. Because it is “more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35), I couldn’t hog all the blessings. It will be fun to love on them in this unique way in the days to come.

But I also wanted them to have the chance to creatively bless others with their drawing talent, gift of encouragement or thoughtful gifts.

Let’s have fun celebrating God’s love for us and loving family members this year!

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Our First Snowfall on the Farm

by Ashley on January 16, 2012

Our First Snowfall on the Farm

Our little "farm house" covered in snow

Snow refreshes and beautifies. Ordinary things look extraordinary under a light blanket of snow. The world is brighter and takes on a sense of adventure.

So, we bundled up (which took all 7 of us around 40 minutes) & headed out not wanting to miss anything!

 

Joseph's snow angel

Joseph has been practicing snow angels on the carpet since Christmas. Today was his moment to make them happen!

Caleb & Samuel

Caleb & Samuel-more of MY snow angels!

Samuel

Samuel was a snowball making machine!

Samuel's snowball

I was his main target. Nice shot!

chickens during the first snowfall on the farm

Our little ladies hovered around water which had frozen to ice waiting to be fed that morning by farmer Jesse!

our pigs

White Socks & Barbie

Jesse milking

Rain, sleet or snow the show must go on! Jesse faithfully milks Patience.

Caleb & Joseph in the snow

Every chance they got Caleb & Joseph plopped down and made snowballs!

Jesse

Jesse was strategic and stock-piled his snowballs.

Wishing you an adventurous winter-wonderland in your neck of the woods!

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Home School Help: Organizing Homeschooling Material in Bins

One of our homeschool bins

With this system, I am empowering my kids to keep track of their own work and materials. They can bring their bins to the table and have everything they need at their fingertips.

Last year, I kept all the homeschool books we used daily or weekly in one bin. This year, I bought one for each of my school-age children. I have one for my teacher manuals too. Each of us have our own color.

In each bin, my kids store:

  • A pencil pouch with markers, erasers, scissors, glue stick and pencils
  • A journal
  • Nature sketch book and Art book
  • Handwriting workbook
  • Math book
  • Readers
  • Additional school materials like an abacus, current projects etc.

    Home School Help: Vertical Storage Unit

    Compact & inexpensive way to store your bins

  • Include a check-list of subjects in order of completion to encourage them to work even more independently. I haven’t found this necessary yet but I know some moms find it helpful.

We found our bins at Target for about $6 each. I love that these bins require very little space to store neatly away after use.You can buy a a ready-made particle board shelf. But we just tuck ours on shelves in a cupboard.

Organizing Homeschooling Material in a Storage Table

Home School Help: Organizing Homeschool Material in a Storage Table

Organize Your Homeschool Bins in This Storage Table

Ingenious! Construct this homeschool storage table! It functions as a place to study and store each of your homeschooling bins.

Give Your Homeschool Routine & Organization a New Twist

I have friends who have taken this idea a step further. Have you heard of the concept “Homeschool Workboxes?”

It’s like a tangible check-list for kids! Each box (or drawer, envelope, however you choose to organize) holds one activity that the child is to do that day. The child uses a “schedule strip of numbers” that directs them to each subject/activity located in each numbered box in the order you choose.

Home School Help: Organizing Homeschooling Material in Homeschool Workboxes

One example of the Homeschool Workboxes System

There are a variety of ways to structurally set up workboxes.

Sometimes, when we feel we are in a homeschool rut, trying out a new “system” can revitalize our homeschool day.

The workboxes mix things up a bit and turn an ordinary routine into a surprise game! There’s a lot of information online about workboxes. Check it out!

 

 

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Mothering with Confidence

by Ashley on January 10, 2012

Mothering with Confidence: Using God's ToolbeltI have always been a little envious of the mom who seems to mother with complete confidence. She unwaveringly makes decisions, gives commands, and  sets limits. No tantrum, complaining or criticism causes her to lose sight of the long-term goals she has for her kids. She has fixed her face like flint.

I, on the other hand, don’t always fare as well. I will second-guess some of the decisions I make, especially when my kids respond negatively to it.

I’ll question: Am I being to harsh? Do they resent me? Will I scar them for life? :-)

I don’t have a master’s degree in mothering. I know. Who does? But some moms seem to enter into motherhood with lots of good tools in their belt. I didn’t feel so well-equipped.

How do I know I have what it takes for this huge task daily before me?

“It is not that we are competent in ourselves to consider anything as coming from ourselves, but our competence is from God.” (2 Corinthians 3:5)

Competence means having suitable or sufficient skill, knowledge, experience, etc., for some purpose; properly qualified. Synonyms for competent are fit, capable and proficient.

When I feel insecure about my capability as a mom of 6 growing boys, I don’t have to search within myself to boost my confidence. I just need to look up. By faith, I mother, believing that God is supernaturally equipping me with what I need. My competence is rooted in Him! I get to use His tool belt!

Through His Holy Spirit, He equipped the craftsmen of the tabernacle with the skills and abilities required for the job.

“And He filled him with the Spirit of God, in wisdom, in understanding and in knowledge and in all craftmanship…” (Exodus 35:30)

In the same way, God enables us to be the moms each of our children need. Each one of our children house His presence much like the Tabernacle did. We are co-laboring with God to craft them into Godly men and women that live to bring Him glory. God has filled us up with His Spirit for the task at hand!

Maybe you’re a tomboy mom raising crafty, girlie girls. Maybe you’re homeschooling subjects you never felt you had a decent grasp on yourself. You feel out of your league. Unfit for the role.

Mothering with Confidence: Stick Your Tongue Out at the Devil's Lies

No matter what we feel, the Scriptures always speak a truer message. We are competent…simply because God says so. He bought our competence on the cross. It’s a gift. Not earned. Not from within ourselves.

So, today we can stick our tongue out and say “Neener neener neener” to the devil who seeks to defeat and disable mothers.

When the devil digs up our past or present mistakes and waves them in our face to cause us to question and doubt our position as mothers, we can speak this verse (2 Corinthians 3:5 stated above).

He’ll have to deal with our Daddy on this one. Because our competence isn’t from ourselves but from Him.

 ”Christ in us the hope of glory” …in our homes and families! (Colossians 1:27)

For more on this topic, please read my post on Overcoming Insecurity!

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